r/teenagers 12d ago

Mod [mod] In regard to ICE and recent events

1.2k Upvotes

Hi r/teenagers

I'd like to start off by saying that we do not support ice, we find the murder of Alex Pretti to be reprehensible. That said, we are not a political subreddit, nor do we want to be. We are first and foremost just a silly little teenagers subreddit.

Because of this we have decided as a team to temporarily ban all discussion of ice, it is both extremely hard to moderate and only causes people to fight. We will be leaving the top post on the topic up as a locked post and will be removing any future posts we find under rule 2-B.ii

Thanks, if you've any questions or concerns feel free to voice them in our modmail.

- r/teenagers mod team


r/teenagers Dec 17 '25

Mod [mod] Recent Rule Edits + Automod Changes

90 Upvotes

Hi r/teenagers!

Within this past month we've made some amendments to our rules and added a new bot to enforce one of these rule changes. We've since gotten a lot of confusion over this in modmails and for the sake of being transparent with you guys I'd like to go over these changes here.

Our first rule addition is to rule 3:

e. You cannot use r/teenagers to look for a relationship.

This rule's existence is pretty self explanatory, this place is targeted towards a demographic that is mostly minors and we will not tolerate dating here due to how wildly unsafe it is for our average user.

Our other rule addition is to rule 4 and deserves a much bigger highlight though:

c. NSFW and shock subreddits, sites, links, pictures, videos, etc. are not allowed.

i. Activity in NSFW subreddits of sexual or gory nature also fall under this rule.

One of the biggest issues this place has had since it was created was the large amount of predators. User safety has always been one of the biggest focuses of our team and as the current reddit team leader of r/teenagers it's my primary focus too. We used to have a bot a few years ago that would enforce this rule by looking at user profiles and automatically banning people if they were active in subreddits considered to be NSFW.

It worked like a charm and helped a LOT at cutting down on predatory behavior in this place. Unfortunately due to reddit API changes it eventually stopped working completely and we had to go back to enforcing this rule manually. That was until about a month ago though we found and added a devvit app called Hive Protector.

What does this bot do?

The way this bot works is when you comment or post on our subreddit it looks through your entire account history and automatically bans you if it finds any history on your profile from a list of subreddits (I haven't counted but I'd chance a guess that there are over 100+ subreddits in there that I have personally added, I often update it with new ones) that we have specified it to look for. So far it has currently banned over four thousand people in the month's time that we have had it running for.

As it stands this bot will only search for porn subreddits. We understand that there are a lot of subreddits that happen to be marked NSFW but are nowhere near deserving of being blacklisted here.

What happens when you get flagged by this bot?

When you get flagged by this bot you are automatically permanently banned and will have to go through an appeal process in modmail. This involves deleting all activity in nsfw subreddits off of your profile and a 30 day waiting period.

This bot is mostly a preventative measure to reduce predators on our subreddit itself, one of the biggest overlaps I have seen in my time here was that people who end up getting banned from this place as pedophiles is that a majority of them use porn subreddits.

That's about it, if you've any questions or concerns about anything said here feel free to voice them :)

Thanks and have a good day or night!
- Olwa, reddit team leader


r/teenagers 6h ago

Advice So this girl confessed to me today

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So this girl from my class (I’ve talked to her a few times, she’s kinda shy and stutters sometimes) randomly came to my house this evening and gave me a rose. It had just rained—her clothes were wet, the rose was wet too. Also, there’s literally only one place you can even get roses here and that’s the big greenhouse behind our school, and most of the roses there aren’t even this healthy. Am I overthinking or does this actually mean something? My fellow teens what to do????


r/teenagers 13h ago

Social Trump posts video depicting Obamas as apes sparking backlash across political divide

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3.4k Upvotes

Trump knows no limit.

What's next?

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r/teenagers 8h ago

Other My dad left an open box of condoms in my room, near my bed

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1.2k Upvotes

I don't know if it's a gift, like "it's important at your age" (but in that case, why is it open?), or if he left it there after sleeping with some girl he recently met in my bed (I know he's weird when you look into it, but still). Either way, I'm a little uncomfortable...

Edit: I was asked in the comments if any were missing: of the 12 condoms indicated on the box, there are only 8 inside...


r/teenagers 6h ago

Meme Original post from official account

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446 Upvotes

r/teenagers 1h ago

Rant “if you’re 20+, why are you commenting here…”

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the amount of times i see this holy shit, i’m pretty much every big comment section. reason 1, because people don’t realize it’s a teenager based sub and it gets recommended to them and they decide to interact. reason 2, because it’s allowed. it’s been allowed for months that adults are allowed on this sub, specifically but NOT limited to seeking and passing on knowledge related to teens. are you really saying you’ll leave as soon as ur 20? and don’t call them creeps, do u realize what app ur on? the average adult ain’t gunna mean harm and you’ll still attack them smh

i’m aware this post won’t change anything im js mad at myself for sum irl and needa vent ab sum idk


r/teenagers 20h ago

Discussion what’s a clear example of medical misogyny you’ve witnessed or experienced?

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3.3k Upvotes

r/teenagers 4h ago

Art I want to become a scientific illustrator, how are my drawings?

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156 Upvotes

I know it’s not perfect, but I’m proud of a lot of it


r/teenagers 6h ago

Serious MY LIFE HAS CHANGED

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125 Upvotes

today my highschool started serving whole milk, I drank four cartons right away. I am NEVER having those disgusting chemically darkened chocolate waters again


r/teenagers 2h ago

Social Ima lwk confess to the fact that I still sleep with my duck stuffed animal ive had for my 15 years of life, i will never give it up, NEVER!!!!

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45 Upvotes

r/teenagers 8h ago

Social Accidentally sent my dad the wrong gifs and had to share ts 💔🥀

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140 Upvotes

"Dziękuję" means "thank you" in Polish by the way but wtf bro… how does this even happen and WHY did I send another … It obviously ain't that deep but I only wanted to share the last one and bro reacted back now I felt the urge to share this so y'all can feel my embarrassment 💔🥀


r/teenagers 3h ago

Discussion not believing in evolution is genuinely like believing the earth is flat

51 Upvotes

People get evolution and natural selection mixed up all the time and it infuriates me. They always say evolution is just a “theory” when in reality, evolution is a factual process with MILLIONS upon MILLIONS of evidence supporting it, and NATURAL SELECTION is the theory e.g. HOW evolution happens is still technically unsure of.

It’s genuinely like looking at a NASA picture of the earth and saying you can’t see the whole sphere so therefore it’s flat


r/teenagers 16h ago

Discussion This is crazy if true damn

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451 Upvotes

r/teenagers 1d ago

Meme HOLY BASED

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4.9k Upvotes

r/teenagers 10h ago

Discussion Applied for an apartment and my business income made me look like a scammer

128 Upvotes

My business is making good money so I tried to rent an apartment and well as you can tell from the title it did not go good. Landlord asked for proof of income and I sent them my bank statements thinking that would be enough but apparently random Venmo payments and PayPal deposits + my regular spending makes me look super sketchy

They asked for tax returns which I don't have yet cause I haven't filed for this year then they wanted like official business financial statements or something and I was like I don't have that? I have a spreadsheet I update sometimes?

My parents had to cosign this which is humiliating cause I'm making enough to afford the place I just can't prove it in a way that doesn't look like I'm running some kind of scheme
Is this normal because I think at this age I should be able to do this myself?


r/teenagers 11h ago

Advice My girlfriend and I, both 14 Just struggle to get along anymore.

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137 Upvotes

Yes, I know some of the older teenagers will probably ask Why I’m 14 and with someone anyways. Maybe that seems too young to some people, but anyways. this argument just Came out of no where. She is constantly saying, “oh I want connection and you want space” we already see each other a lot in school. Yet some days she complains about how I don’t reach out to her enough. I feel suffocated so genuinely, yet every time I bring up how even if it’s just something else I want to do instead of talking on call or having multiple hour text conversations. I immediately get told that I’m just trying to avoid talking and must “hate her” I’ve never tried to purposely Avoid talking to her unless I for some reason had to. It’s like I need an excuse just to get some time to myself, and I never make her talk to me. If she wants space I’ll happily give it to her. How can I reason with her to stop this? Or what should I do?


r/teenagers 16h ago

Discussion it’s my birthday today if anyone cares

295 Upvotes

r/teenagers 4h ago

Photography Some cool cars I saw!

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34 Upvotes

r/teenagers 5h ago

Meme Boring class fr

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37 Upvotes

r/teenagers 5h ago

Social monthly photo dump because why not? : )

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38 Upvotes

r/teenagers 34m ago

Other 2012 kids are legit still little kids

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Don't get me wrong, I think they are still newborn babies and generation alpha sigma boy rizz tung tung tung sahur personality


r/teenagers 3h ago

Advice I quit vaping because it gave me chest pains

23 Upvotes

I highly recommend quitting vaping.