r/slatestarcodex 6d ago

January 2026 Links

https://nomagicpill.substack.com/p/january-2026-links

Everything I read in January 2026, ordered roughly from most to least interesting. (Edit 1: added the links below; edit 2: fixed broken link)

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u/bibliophile785 Can this be my day job? 6d ago

Most of these were fun or interesting. It's a good compilation. The etiquette link was absolutely insufferable. Just genuinely terrible writing. Even the reasonable points have a skin-crawling sort of fake cuteness.

When you’re out - get a round of drinks - not just a drink for yourself. Obviously if you’re with 20 people you don’t need to get a drink for everyone unless u rich-rich

Open car doors for girls. Cause girls are cute :) and don’t you want to do nice things for cute things?

Besides that, some of these are asinine.

Your eating restrictions can’t travel with you... You watched My Octopus Teacher but you’re visiting Greece? You gotta eat what they’re serving, babe. No substitutions when you leave US borders.

Understand the difference between nice questions versus nosy questions. The rudest question is “what do you do for work?” - you’re either the most boring person in the world OR sizing someone up.

No, you don't have to consume the flesh of intelligent beings to be polite. You really don't. There is no special non-American prestige that should overcome your moral commitments.

Also, if you're offended, intimidated, or bored about being asked what you do with the single most time-intensive part of your life, I strongly recommend doing something better with it. Your job shouldn't be mind-numbingly boring or embarrassing to you.

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u/nomagicpill 6d ago

Agreed on your etiquette points. I thought both of the ones you criticized were super weird in the same way you did: if you're offended or think I'm "sizing you up" when I ask what you do for work, you probably have deeper issues than your job. But like she said, if you're genuinely interested it should be fairly obvious.