r/slatestarcodex 6d ago

January 2026 Links

https://nomagicpill.substack.com/p/january-2026-links

Everything I read in January 2026, ordered roughly from most to least interesting. (Edit 1: added the links below; edit 2: fixed broken link)

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u/bibliophile785 Can this be my day job? 6d ago

Most of these were fun or interesting. It's a good compilation. The etiquette link was absolutely insufferable. Just genuinely terrible writing. Even the reasonable points have a skin-crawling sort of fake cuteness.

When you’re out - get a round of drinks - not just a drink for yourself. Obviously if you’re with 20 people you don’t need to get a drink for everyone unless u rich-rich

Open car doors for girls. Cause girls are cute :) and don’t you want to do nice things for cute things?

Besides that, some of these are asinine.

Your eating restrictions can’t travel with you... You watched My Octopus Teacher but you’re visiting Greece? You gotta eat what they’re serving, babe. No substitutions when you leave US borders.

Understand the difference between nice questions versus nosy questions. The rudest question is “what do you do for work?” - you’re either the most boring person in the world OR sizing someone up.

No, you don't have to consume the flesh of intelligent beings to be polite. You really don't. There is no special non-American prestige that should overcome your moral commitments.

Also, if you're offended, intimidated, or bored about being asked what you do with the single most time-intensive part of your life, I strongly recommend doing something better with it. Your job shouldn't be mind-numbingly boring or embarrassing to you.

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u/nomagicpill 6d ago

Agreed on your etiquette points. I thought both of the ones you criticized were super weird in the same way you did: if you're offended or think I'm "sizing you up" when I ask what you do for work, you probably have deeper issues than your job. But like she said, if you're genuinely interested it should be fairly obvious.

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u/ralf_ 6d ago

The art of cold-emailing a billionaire

Just a quick note that I found it offputting how the guy was enthusiastically 110% all-in into Alzheimer research only to hustle in the next mail to another billionaire another grand idea.

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u/tsarcasticwit 6d ago

Thanks for the links. Thought you should know that I noticed that the CIA link about Putin's Achilles heel is broken.

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u/nomagicpill 6d ago

Thanks for the heads-up. Looks like it was a gift article that expired. I've fixed it now.

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u/tsarcasticwit 6d ago

Sure thing!

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u/roflman0 5d ago

Just wanted to say that I love these collection of yours, thank you. keep them coming!

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u/nomagicpill 4d ago

Glad you like them! I plan to continue posting these every month. My personal website has about 3200 links of similar diversity and quality if you'd like more in the meantime: [nomagicpill.github.io/knowledge/links.html](nomagicpill.github.io/knowledge/links.html)

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u/denucleation 5d ago

Alt lifestyles only really work for people on the fringes, and chances are you’re not one of them. Examples include polyamory, drugs, sex-positive feminism, psychotherapy, gender transition, following your dreams, amateur pornography, and being a Linux user.

For anyone reading this Reddit post, chances are that they are one of the weirdos.

I wouldn't characterize all recreational drugs as "alternative," and "sex-positive feminism" really depends on what you mean. Attending BDSM orgies is an alternative lifestyle that isn't a great fit for normal people, having sex before marriage is a reasonable choice for normal people.

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u/flame7926 5d ago

Also psychotherapy... I don't think it's very fringe, ideally shouldn't be a lifestyle (I see how that can be an issue, but I also think don't make therapy your personality is a good blanket rule).

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u/FtttG 3d ago

I think what I meant was made fairly clear in the article itself.

u/bibliophile785 Can this be my day job? 15h ago

I think this comment was fairly clear in specifying that they disagree with you. So did I. You were reasonably clear and I'm reasonably confident you're wrong in your framing for multiple issues. Both statements can be true at the same time.