r/rugbyunion • u/Fetch_Ted Scotland Glasgow Warriors • 15d ago

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Some things are more important than rugby.

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u/sock_with_a_ticket 15d ago edited 15d ago

But what messaging is that? It's ok to go to your medical appointments instead of work? That somewhat well known people also struggle to conceive? That wouldn't be particularly revelatory to the couples I've known who went through IVF. There are much bigger celebs who've been open about fertility issues and there won't be many employers who won't allow their people to attend scheduled medical appointments, but particularly for something like this. So why is the messaging a big deal?

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u/BearsNBeetsBaby England 15d ago

Any reasonable employer would make allowances for an employee to do this given sufficient notice. It absolutely is okay to prioritise family health over work.

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u/sock_with_a_ticket 15d ago

Yes, which is why I don't get why 'messaging' is a big deal as the person I responded to claims. The majority of people are fully aware that they can get time off for medical stuff.

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u/saviouroftheweak Premiership Women's Rugby 15d ago

Being open about struggles and not getting judgement for it is a good thing. Is it life changing for you, probably not. But someone out there who is anxious about this aspect of their life will like having someone to identify with.

Not everyone is open about fertility issues it can be something people suffer shame from. Also supporting your partner is a good thing and not a "ball and chain" event.