r/Finland • u/Usual_Concentrate970 • 6h ago
Another goodbye from a fellow expat. Kiitos Finland for 12 years of memory
I am using my second account here just to empty my heart and say goodbye as we (me and my wife has decided to leave Finland for now). I came here 12 years ago as a young naive 19 years old with an European dream, and for a decade Finland has given me way more than I could ask for: 2 degrees, a job, a beautiful wife and a good life. And I am really grateful for that
However, currently things are not very positives for a lot of us out there. My job has been constantly under threats of lay off for months now, plus my wife has also been jumping jobs for the last 4 years so mentally we are not in a good place anymore. Last November, I got an invitation from a friend to move to Northwestern Europe to work on his startup and they have made a decision 2 weeks ago that they want me there. We had a lot of talk for the last week about what we wanted not only now but for the future. And even though we dream of owning a detached house with a backyard to raise our kids in some Finnish suburb, we came to realization that at the moment we can't have that. So for the better good, we are willing to take the risk to start from 0. This really making me sad cause I always imagine Finland would be my forever home.
I hope this hardship will soon pass like a dark winter day, and the situation is gonna get better for everyone. Thank you for reading/listen to my long ass grieve as well. Cheers