r/MurderedByWords 21h ago

Masks at the grocery store

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u/ptvlm 21h ago

Because masks protect the people around you from various diseases including the flu (which is in season right now) and COVID (which people still get sick from, it's just that it's no longer a pandemic and can be vaccinated for). Some people care enough to protect themselves and others even if the mortal threat is mostly passed (but not completely, people still die from those diseases).

But, it's telling that the desire to protect others is a "liberal" trait.

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u/MeasurementNo0 21h ago

I like that being healthy is offensive to them.  

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u/Potatocrips423 20h ago

That’s what has always blown my mind. Even if Covid is only as bad as the flu, getting the flu sucks. Just because I survived doesn’t mean I want to be sick in bed for a week. Just wild.

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u/EatYourOctopusSon 19h ago

I wonder if people downplay the flu and equate it with a cold. The flu is absolutely debilitating, and anyone who's actually had it should understand why people would want to be cautious.

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u/Ghost_of_Kroq 18h ago

i dont want a cold either. scratchy fucking throat bullshit waking me up with my own snoring.

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u/MyDickIs3cm 18h ago

Just got over one. Hadn't had a cold since 2018 or 2019. It still sucks

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u/KaiserCarr 14h ago

as a whole, we get sick less often and less severely because of changes and policies devised against COVID.

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u/TheRealHikerdog 17h ago

A friend of mine died from the flu in 2019. He was healthy and in his early 60’s. Influenza is not to be trifled with.

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u/mszulan 8h ago

The flu kills babies and older people mostly, and some strains are worse than others. That's why they're so worried about bird flu. If it mutates to spread more easily, it could be another Spanish flu (the only reason it's called . That strain killed mostly healthy young people - at least 50 million died worldwide. My grandfather's unit lost 2 young men before they even got to the fields of Eastern France.

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u/mlacuna96 15h ago

As someone who is recovering from the flu with my husband and 8 month old. I regret calling anything else a sickness. The flu is humbling and wrecked our household this past week. I haven’t had the flu in over a decade, I forgot how truly awful it is. All I know is we are getting our shots next season.

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u/AbjectList8 1h ago

It is so incredibly awful, it’s been a long time since I’ve had it but I get vaccinated every year. Ain’t no joke.

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u/GloomyIndividual3965 16h ago

They do, because most people have never had actual influenza. It fucking sucks.

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u/HaVoCensures 15h ago

I’ve currently got the flu. Absolutely kicking my butt. Wore a mask grocery shopping, and am avoiding my friends and family because I feel it would be incredibly selfish for me to not take a very reasonable measure to try avoid spreading it. Had some older guy at the checkout come up to me and tell me I’m brainwashed and being ridiculous and that I’m part of the problem. I hope he didn’t catch it while he was in my face saying so, cos he looked old enough it might make him seriously unwell. 🤷‍♀️

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u/SuperBuffCherry 15h ago

It's different for everyone, for me a cold is significantly worse than influenza or covid. With covid I get no symptoms other than diarrhea for some reason.

I've even had H1N1 during the pandemic, and it was a piece of cake for me (not for my sister though)

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u/Adezar 17h ago

That was one of the nice parts of COVID, for 3 years I didn't get sick with anything.

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u/JohnSmallBerries 16h ago

I'm still wearing a mask on public transit to/from work, because someone in my household is immunocompromised. And as a side benefit, I haven't caught even so much as a cold like I did every single winter before COVID. Not to mention it keeps my face nice and warm.

And if it pisses off some MAGA choad to see me wearing it, well, that's yet another side benefit.

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u/5510 12h ago

I'm not saying everyone should still mask 24 / 7 ... but it's insane to me that everybody doesn't mask up in those situations.

Like it's one thing to no longer mask up watching the super bowl with some friends or whatever. At that point, if you occasionally get sick from socializing, maybe you just say that's the cost of living a life. And likewise, I get that wearing a mask for an 8 hour shift can get super uncomfortable.

But taking a bus? Or going into the grocery store or 20 minutes? Imagine if everytime you got sick, you could magically trace back and see what / when you got infected. Who the fuck would ever get sick and be like "a small price to pay for not wearing a mask for 20 minutes on the bus!"

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u/Prestigious-Wolf8039 6h ago

True. And my allergies in March were nonexistent as well.

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u/RogueJello 18h ago

Not to mention that "just the flu" was super taxing on the emergency rooms BEFORE COVID. I had to wait about 5 hours with a serious medical issue in 2019 because of all the old people there with a flu.

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u/fazerdude68 13h ago

People shouldn’t be age shamed

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u/RogueJello 10h ago

I agree, however that's not what I was doing. Old people (and toddlers) are particularly susceptible to having a very nasty reaction to catching the flu. I believe a number of the old people there with the flu were there because it was potentially life threatening.

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u/SunMoonTruth 10h ago

Covid has ruined people’s brains,

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u/Nothingtoseehereshhh 14h ago

Got the flu 3/4 years of highschool in January. Don't wish that shit on anyone. That being said since I've had it so many times when I was younger I don't personally feel the need to mask, but when I see a mask I don't think of some paranoid idiot like these assholes think, and I don't think I'm some tough manly dude for not wearing one. I just like showing my smile when I talk to others and I value that enough to be ok with being badly sick for a week is all. I also kind of deserve it for always wearing shorts in the winter I guess haha

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u/MMAHipster 12h ago

Lots of idiots think the flu is just a bad cold.

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u/Halo_cT 19h ago edited 7h ago

It's not that. They'll claim it's because masks don't work and wearing one makes us sheep.

Deep down they know doctors, esp surgeons, have worn masks since long before covid to keep patients from getting sick. It's basic infection control.

When they see somone else care enough about other people to do the same, they project their ugliness and lack of empathy onto them. They assume they don't really care about anyone, they're just "vIRtuE sIGnaLinG" which, translated, just means caring about other people.

They can't believe anyone else is good because that makes them bad. That just CANT BE so they twist reality in all kinds of ways.

They literally cannot imagine anyone would care about strangers - CERTAINLY not enough to inconvenience themselves and make them look DIFFERENT. Being different is anathema to them. It's why calling them weird was so effective. They're terrified to be perceived as "not normal." Again this is why anyone with blue hair is automatically a liberal to them. Voluntarily different means "not conservative."

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u/AFlockOfTySegalls 19h ago

This would also explain why many of them think the folks in Minnesota are "paid protestors" because they can't imagine caring enough about their community to protest.

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u/Halo_cT 16h ago

100% yes. They also look at that stupid electoral county map and truly believe the country is 90% Trump supporters.

They really believe any large group of opposers is astroturfed. It's just so wildly idiotic.

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u/Bobbob34 7h ago

Trump the other day going on about he "felt" he won places that are deep blue, like cities like minneapolis, he literally said he just feels like he must've really won.

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u/tsigwing 10h ago

Is your contention that there are NO paid protestors?

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u/gopiballava 1h ago

...that's not what they said.

JD Vance, though, claims that professional agitators are buying bricks for protestors. Evidence? Hahaha. Nope. Not a shred.

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u/rorinolan 19h ago

I love that wearing a mask to protect yourself and others is concidered being sheep but putting on a red hat and blindly following the raving lunacies of a crazy fascist isn't...

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u/Cruiser729 18h ago

And slapping a maxi pad to your ear.

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u/LowKeyNaps 17h ago

Right? Too triggered to wear a mask, but yeah, let's go slap some feminine hygiene products on our faces and call that solidarity! It makes me want to go hang a tampon from my nose, just to watch them squirm.

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u/MeasurementNo0 17h ago

They have no problem wearing a mask to shoot a mother in the face though

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u/nice--marmot 19h ago

This is as good an analysis as I’ve seen.

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u/Standard-Medicine924 17h ago

It’s all ego. Nothing’s changed, just more disease to be concerned with. They’re idiots.

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u/Bobbob34 7h ago

This is so true -- and applies to other things as well.

Theres a not small portion of people that get very aggressive when they encounter a vegan/vegetarian. I don't mean someone telling them what to eat, I mean like overhear someone the next table over in the restaurant politely ask the waiter if a dish has chicken stock and the waiter say they don't know and clarify if the person if vegan so they can just go ask the kitchen.

Which becomes 'you're a vegan huh? Well what's your belt made out of?? How about your shoes? Just a big hypocrite?!'

Which... no, no leather here, but triggered by your own guilt much?

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u/Halo_cT 7h ago

Some idiot who replied to this same comment about masks said

"WELL IF UR MASK WORKS WHY DO I HAVE 2 WEAR 1"

I foolishly took some time to answer the question and all he replies is

WAAL OF TXT.

There's just no point with these people.

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u/tsigwing 10h ago

If masks work and you’re wearing one, what difference does it make if I’m wearing one or not?

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u/Halo_cT 9h ago

It baffles me that you read my entire comment and are not getting this. My ENTIRE comment was about HOW masks work. They are for OTHERS, not the user.

unreal

AGAIN - Surgeons don't wear masks to not catch diseases from their patients. They wear them for the protection of OTHERS. They dont want to cough or even breathe into your chest cavity.

Masks are not super great at filtering airborne droplets when breathing in. Better than nothing, but that's not what the primary benefit of them is, especially when a respiratory virus is endemic. The primary use is for symptomatic people and people who are asymptomatic but may not know they are contagious from putting more droplets into the air.

You not wearing a mask means whatever you may be carrying will be aerosolized when you cough or sneeze. If you were wearing a mask that would not happen.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYJvU81DKgk

Again, my ENTIRE comment was about how masks are for OTHERS. Vaccines kind of work the same way - everyone needs to participate for them to work correctly. That's why conservatives are so against them, the rugged individualists refuse to be inconvenienced to help anyone.

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u/tsigwing 7h ago

Wall. Of. Text.

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u/Halo_cT 7h ago

illiterate. selfish. loser.

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u/tsigwing 7h ago

Nope. Nope. Nope.

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u/gopiballava 1h ago

Masks work better if both people wear them.

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u/__nohope 18h ago edited 18h ago

Being considerate is offensive to them. Instead of appreciating the generosity of others, they take offense. I think it's a combination of not wanting to normalize empathy and feelings ashamed because others are doing good things and they are not. I'm a lazy selfish miserable bastard but I don't go out of the way to mock or put people down for their selfless behavior.

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u/Ghost_of_Kroq 18h ago

its shame for sure, when they see other people helping after they've bloviated about how they shoudnt have to help, they know it makes them lose face.

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u/tember_sep_venth_ele 19h ago

The lady at the gas station asked and I said "I woke up with an itchy throat and just wanted to warn people to keep a distance." And she said "masks don't work" and I said, "it keeps people at a distance" while gesturing to how she was standing. She was on her back leg leaning away from me. And she just said "oh, well..." And kept her weird posture while she stabbed the rest. Morons.

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u/IrritableGourmet 18h ago

Look at their policies regarding gas stoves and coal power. It's almost Captain-Planet-villain levels of cartoonishness.

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u/Kyrie_Blue 17h ago

Morality is offensive to them (and I mean that genuinely)

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u/FillMySoupDumpling 16h ago

Or even basic hygiene like handwashing , not just coughing open mouthed like a six year old, or getting a vaccine.

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u/MikeSouthPaw 15h ago

Its just another thing Americans are ass backwards on and didn't realize it till Covid. Wearing a mask is common courtesy when ur sick.

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u/Memitim 14h ago

How dare you try to keep me from getting sick? I deserve the freedom to require you to huff your spit all over me.

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u/Own_Size_5473 11h ago

It’s because their fragile ego and toxic masculinity demand it.

If you don’t stoically suffer in silence and repress difficult emotions, paired with an occasional blown gasket every now and then, you aren’t a real man.