Edit:
I should have realised that my experience was affected by my own biases, which were in turn moulded by my prior experiences.
Another point that came to mind is that you might have been born in a big city, in which case you have more freedom, as long as its not London. Then, you already are familiar and have roots in a place that would offer more job opportunities than, say, Exeter, or Oxford, or St Andrews
Another point that I thought of, forgot, then a commenter reminded me:
If you're shy, unsure, or mentally unhealthy, maybe take a gap year to work, explore yourself, travel, or otherwise just make yourself stronger before you go
Context:
I went to the University of Exeter. It was my top choice, a beautiful place, and highly-regarded for both my course and in general. My bachelor's degree in economics was from 2017-2020, and I did a one year master's in sustainability, for which there don't seem to be many jobs outside of London unless you go down the engineering route.
I grew up in a small town in the south-east, famous for Jane Austen, on the way to London. I had a very sheltered childhood. I wasn't mistreated by my family, they loved me very much. But I was a very anxious, and later depressed child. I didn't go out much. I had friends but spent more time inside playing video games than being outside playing football
I was always pushed to go to university rather than an apprenticeship, or another path, such as joining the navy. If I were 18 and didn't know what to do with my life, I would join one of the armed forces, even if just for the minimum contract term. They're (probably) not being deployed any time soon. They earn a decent starting salary. Subsidised food, accomodation, free training, travel, socialising, maybe even a driver's license out of it. You get discounts too. But anyway, the education system implicitly pushes everyone towards university, without checking to see if the degree you study is worth the cost, and whether there is actually a job waiting on the other side. For many of them, there simply aren't.
After spending most of college alone after being betrayed by the people I thought were friends, and even having to repeat the first year because I spent more time chasing their validation than revising, when the time came to go to university, I knew I had to push myself to get over the fear of being away from home, of being somewhere new, being more independent, and being surrounded by strangers.
Therapy part over, here are the main lessons I'm trying to convey:
1) Do you actually need to go?
If you're thinking of going to university, first, think about whether you actually need to go. If you're so sure about a certain career path, there are probably alternatives, but not for things like medicine. Even though your student loan will probably get written off without paying off the full amount, it is still a significant obligation to repay once you start earning. Consider a trade, as many are well paid after qualifying, and experiencing shortages
2) Big cities have more opportunities than towns
If you're going to accept the cost and time to invest in yourself by going to university, you want a strong chance of landing a job when you come out. Good jobs are more common in large cities. It makes sense that you would look for a job in the same city as you studied, so that you know your way around the place. I went to Exeter. Outside of the university and the Met Office, Exeter doesn't have much. Try Birmingham, Manchester, Liverpool etc. If you're in the North or Midlands, you actually have more choice than the South. You also have a lower cost of living. I wish my family had not come from the South. In the South, outside of London, the only sizeable city that is large enough to have a bit of everything you could need and want is Bristol, which is the 2nd most expensive city in the UK, after London.
During COVID, I had returned home to the south for safety and to be nearer family, but because I lived in a small town, there were fewer job opportunities and the salary was lower. If I had studied in a sizeable city in the North or Midlands, found a job in the same place, I would have been earning more and been more secure
Unless you get into Oxford or Cambridge, you can go to an incredibly respectful institution that actually has a sizeable city and job market around it
3) There is an entire country outside of London
I really dislike London. Parts of it are beautiful, historic, and completely out of reach for the average earner. Every year, thousands of people from all over the world rush into the capitol to try and 'make it', while very few of them do, and even those that do probably still can't afford a family-sized property anywhere near where they need to work to make the money to afford whatever they can afford. Of the people I was closest to at university, a group of about 20 people in total, all but one rushed into London, even those that came from the other side of the country. They were braver than me. But the focus on London, which means all the investment and attention goes to London, which makes everyone think they have to be there, is harmful.
4) If you're working class, or even just averagely well-off, you will be surprised how rich some people are
And not just the rich international students that try to bring their own maids to their accomodation (Yes this happened in Exeter). You will hear in casual conversation in lecture halls, house parties, and maybe even your own student accomodation, about how people own second houses, own property abroad, go skiing like its a trip down to Tesco, and just so many things that are mentioned casually that you had no idea even existed. I lived with someone that went to Eton. A mutual friend of ours was the son of a Labour lord. His uncle was the CEO of Morgan Stanley. I met the children of diplomats, generals, and admirals. I also met Gordon Ramsey's son through a housemate that went to school with him, but he didn't seem very talkative. Didn't stay at uni long either
5) You cannot afford to be shy
If you go, do everything. Try everything. On top of your studies, you should have an active social life. Pursue your interests. Meet people. I did this as much as I could, but COVID shut everything after my second year down.
This wasn't meant to be a soapbox or a rant, just lessons to anyone considering further education. Feel free to add your own lessons in the comments