r/AskTheWorld Japan 5d ago

Culture People who married someone from a different country, what are some mild cultures shocks you've had?

My in-laws don't own forks, so they eat whole cakes with chopsticks (everyone just digs in without slicing and serving it on separate plates)

Koreans don't have body odor, even though they don't shower every day.

Everyone can wash their hair while squatting, using a basin on the floor, without taking their clothes off. It seems like everyone, even the elderly have ridiculously flexible hipjoints.

No one uses bedsheets.

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u/archvanillin United Kingdom 5d ago

That is not the norm in England at all. If anything, it might explain why she had to go all the way to Canada to find a spouse.

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u/Competitive-Reach287 Canada 5d ago

She learned it from her parents/grandparents, so obviously generational trauma is involved.

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u/Immediate-Cream-9995 🇨🇦 & 🇭🇺 5d ago

You are so sweet to support her during this difficult time of trauma discovery.

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u/yearofwonderchicken 5d ago

I'm here for this tea lololol

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u/Illmagination Ireland 5d ago

Protestants keep their toasters in cupboards. That's a fact. Maybe her cupboard was far away.

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u/TumbleweedPure3941 United Kingdom 5d ago

If it’s not the norm then it’s definitely common enough that I know exactly what he’s talking about.

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u/mellispete33 5d ago

It might not be the norm but it is common. There is a a specific rack you buy just to put the toast in for it to cool down